At some point, we all need a little lovin’ and when that feeling comes around we don’t always have someone with which to satisfy that need.
For the uninitiated, Pure is an app for your smartphone that helps you find people in your area who want to hook up for the night. It’s strictly for casual, one night stand sex, so if you’re looking for a relationship, this isn’t the app for you.
What sets this app apart from others who help you find a hook up right this minute is that it’s literally all about now. When you sign up, new users get 5 free passes to find someone to have casual sex with. When you use one of these passes, this lets your profile be visible to people around you for one hour.
This app is very minimal in terms of displaying your profile; all people can see is up to 5 pictures, a short tagline, and your location. If no one is interested and the hour goes by, you’re going to have to use another pass to try to hook up. After your first 5 passes are used, you’ll need to buy more.
Overall this app can be very useful, but you need your profile to grab people’s attention; remember, time is of the essence.
People go to the bars for a variety of reasons, and one of them is to find someone to bring home for the night. This is a method that has been used by single people for hundreds of years and seems to be one of the easiest.
To find a hook up for the night, you need to look good and emit confidence. Ladies are attracted to guys who are confident, and vice versa.
Get a drink, and if you spot someone worth your efforts, buy them one as well. That will pique their interest, and now you have an opportunity to approach them! Start out with a compliment or ask them why they’re alone, and now you’ve got a conversation going. Just remember to read them correctly; they might not be interested in going home with you.
#3: Yik Yak
This is an app that is essentially anonymous Twitter. Many users create posts about their desire for sex or a friend with benefits, and some are willing to hook up tonight.
Since it is anonymous, you need to be careful because anyone could be anybody. You never know who you could be talking to. If you find someone who wants casual sex tonight as well, ask them for their Snapchat or Kik.
When people comment on posts by users who display their desire for sex tonight, they usually ask them for their Kik or Snapchat username. If you get this far, have them delete the comment soon after posting it to ensure no one else sees it but you.
If this method works for you, be careful and have the initial meet up be at a public place. If everything is fine, then proceed back to your place or theirs.
#4: Friends of Friends
If you want to have a hookup tonight but don’t trust apps or social media to get it, ask a friend if they know anyone who is down for casual sex that night.
If you don’t ask them, you’ll never know, so it’s worth trying to see if they know anyone who is down for a hookup.
Just make sure the other person understands that it’s just a one night stand and strictly casual; we don’t want there to be any miscommunication which could lead to people getting hurt.
OkCupid is a dating app, but some users use it for finding people they’re compatible with who only want casual sex.
This is a good way to go, as you can learn about people by viewing their profiles. You can message people you’re interested in and arrange a hookup tonight.
Not all users of OkCupid want casual sex, but there is a number of people who are open to it; you just need to find them.
Those are five ways in which you can find someone to take home for the night. Remember to be safe, courteous, and to never take advantage of people, even if you both want the same thing. Sometimes people get attached to those who they sleep with, so always communicate and know what want from each other.
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